big-macintosh:

lslines:

Oh no, no more questions :(

Aaron just tried to be judgey about other people’s relationships, calling them “crazy” for being sensitive about their partner having any kind of relations with other people. I got mad! Nope! You don’t get to judge other people about their relationships! Just cuz you are poly you don’t get to pick on mono people! Fuck you I will beat you up. Love your very monogamous fiancé.

V____V  Just a wild guess here but I’m going to say it was me he was calling crazy.

Yep! But that’s okay, I told him off in the voice that means “disagree with me and we are going to have a very serious argument” and he went “…okay. Okay.”

It is never okay for you to judge someone else’s relationship! Even if it were, if you are not a continuous central part of it is not your fuicking place to even have an opinion.

I do not care if you are mono or poly, straight or anywhere under the bracket of queer, if you are not one of the people who is constantly and consistantly involved in the relationship? Shut. The fuck. Up. It is none of your goddamn business and if you try and judge so I hope to your higher power you have someone to call you the fuck out.

You are always right to be “over-sensitive”. You are always right to ‘not care enough’ . You are always right to have sex with more partners than are in your relationship, or with just enough, or even with none! The only person who is aloud to make any kind of final decision is you. No, not even you partner/s! Just you. You don’t get to decide what is right and what is wrong, what suits you and what doesn’t! If you are involved with significant other/s, it is also their business! But doesn’t otherwise! Shhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Shhhh.

Shh.